That's a good question. I'm not sure what is the right answer. I'll do some investigation and get back to you if I bump into an anything. You should email the people at Lending Tree as they probably can answer it..

Bill..

I understand. I swear evry statement I said is true, and I never ask for extra money, upgrade product to them. I went to the BBB hoping to solve it fair & fast so everyone get back to their life. So when they send me the letter with that ridiculous allegation, I had to fight back. I have no money, no background, no help. The salesman said to me once" I know you are a housewife & has nothing better to do but for trouble.." well, that is not true.

Who are they to judge me, and makes remarks like I am a 2nd class citizen. Every violation I pulled out from Federal & State codes cost me hours of sleep & quality time with my children. I gave them 4 months to solves this, in returnd they gave me a letter threating to sue me just because I exercise my right as consumer? This is United State fo America, not China nor Cuba, I believe "little" people like me is still entitle to justice, dont you agree?..

If this is "family" why don't you call and ask? Bringing salad is also a great plan...

I did not intend to even suggest that anything you said or did was untrue. I was speaking of my own personal experiences only.

Absolutely!..

NJ-.

I come from an Italian family and completely understand. I love my family dearly and am VERY proud of my heritage, but let's face it this just isn't "dinner". It's all about the food and if you don't eat it's somehow offensive. Hard for people to understand if they aren't used to it. There's usually at least pasta, meat, veggie and salad. Bringing something is a good idea too..

I skip the pasta course because I'm gluten sensitive. If you can't skip it without "people fainting" take a litle, push it around your plate and don't eat it..

Then make your plate with the meat, veg and salad and eat slowly. Not only is eating slowly the way we are supposed to eat also, but less likely people will keep offering you other things. And don't forget to smile and have a good time...

Sorry Bill,.

I was being to sensitive..kinda of the edge now...

No hard feelings?!..

I completely empathize with your situation. I'm not Italian, but Southern and we have a similar attachment to food. My mom is a food pusher and she is the most amazing cook. It would devastate her if I refused her food. I might as well say, "you're not my mom anymore!" I like all the ideas everyone has given so far (and plan on using them myself in the near future!) I would also try to sit next to some supportive family members and let them know so when your cousin/aunt/grandma/ says you haven't eaten, they can say cover for you..

Best of luck and let us know how it goes!..

Hard feelings?.

I thought you thought I thought OH NEVER MIND..

LOL..

The only thing I can offer is a hug and a prayer for you! Stay strong. Lettuce know how it went...

Anyone has a good consumer lawyer?.

In case I have to take this further.......

For some reason most people, even loving family, back down about food when you tell them your Dr. has you on this program., load you plate with greens, and be the first to get up and do dishes., start the coffee., enjoy the day., ask lots of questions of other people., keep the interest flowing in others.....

Three words that just don't mix (in a number of ways)!..

The best way to know what there is to eat, is to bring it. Bring a nice salad, cook some chicken and add to the salad. Eat that. Bring a brownie and MW it at home..

This is about you. What are they going to do, disown you? Pffft!! (sometimes I wish it was that easy!! LOL!).

Glenn..

True guys,.

What am I thinking, ha ha...

Well I guess the best way is do it myself....

Ok, so if I dont heard from them next week, should I send a "intend to sue" letter ? Should I address to the manufature or the dealer?..

Well, what I have seen fairly often in such situations is that the dealer is sued and the manufacturer is sometimes named as a co defendant...

Got a respond letter from their attorny.....

Lawoffice of BIG BUD HEAD.

Zyzy1688.

Notown rd.

Citrus Hts, CA 90000.

Dear Ms Zy;.

I am in receipt of your letter dated march 19,2003. First of all, one one has chosen litigation at this point. Evilass Carpet also like to bring this issue to closure without further expense and inconvenience for all concered. Therefore without responding point by point to all of the allegation in you letter, which are of course disputed, let me simply ask you this.-you stated thaat you spoke with our rep & agreed to the cash refund, Are you still willing to accept the cash refund of $ 1300, if so them I beleive this matter can be settled prompty..

Very truly yours,.

Bud head (sign the attorny).

This is the same ppl that threat to sue me for defamatory, now does the letter seem "soft" ? .

What they offer will be fair IF the carpet situation dont get worse, BUT if the damage area worsen, that money wont cover 1/2 of my house. I still felt I am entitle for the full refund. what do you think?..

Stick to your guns! Ya see, the manufacturer and dealer have already ADMITTED to the defect when the dealer accepted a refund from the manufacturer. Why should the little guy be shorted?.

Dear Butthead Attorney,.

After your completely false accusations of defamation in an attempt to try and intimidate me, when I exercised my rights as a consumer, I am in no mood to accept a settlement for anything less than the full amount I paid for the carpet..

If Crooked Carpet company wants the carpet back, they can come get it!.

(OK, maybe something a little more professional)...

Thanks jlynn, I couldnt agree more..

One thing I have to point out....dont use the BBB, it doesnt work!!.

They already close the file, and they dont care if this company violated the law.. Can you believe that!!.

And the comments they wrote is...

"Bureau File Experience.

Our complaint history for this company shows that the one customer complaint brought to the company's attention was responded to and given proper consideration...".

So the business reliability report is not necessary reliable....